Month: February 2019
I want you to think about something for a minute here. I want you to really think about how much it hurts to know that you and your girlfriend have broken up. Think about what it will feel like when you hear it through the grapevine that she is now dating someone else. Do you want to just let this happen, or are you READY to do something about it so that you DO get her back?
When a relationship ends, men come up with one idea and they usually stick to it. And it is the WRONG idea. That idea is, they try to convince their ex girlfriend to take them back. Whether it is through writing a letter, trying to get her to talk on the phone or through text messages, most guys will try to go the route of using logic to convince their ex girlfriend on why she should take them back.
And you know what?
It almost NEVER works. I would be pleasantly surprised if it even worked 10 percent of the time. You need a better strategy, and you need to really know WHY it is that you cannot convince your ex girlfriend to take you back through LOGICAL reasoning.
FEMALE ATTRACTION IS EMOTIONAL…
If you try to speak “logic” to your ex girlfriend, it is kind of like trying to speak Spanish to someone that only understands Russian. There is no common ground there, really. See, women, they way that they are attracted to a man, is almost all about emotions. And men, they try to repair a relationship through logic.
Do you SEE the disconnection there?
When you are trying to convince a woman to take you back, the message is falling on deaf ears. She is not feeling what you are saying, and the more and more that you talk to her and try and make her take you back, the stronger that disconnection becomes. And it will ultimately lead to her NEVER coming back to YOU.
WHAT SHOULD YOU DO TO GET YOUR GIRLFRIEND BACK?
You need to know how to trigger the right emotions in your ex girlfriend. You need to know how to use the female psychology of attraction to make it become YOUR best friend, and make her start to FEEL a certain way when she thinks of YOU. This is how you are going to plant the seed of desire and make her WANT to get back with you.
Real love is something that most teenagers thought they invented. The fact is real love is something that happens once the infatuation simmers down. Suddenly, love seems to happen in time.
Falling in love could happen anytime, like waking up in the morning and you realize that you must have that uniquely exciting person in your life. It’s a extraordinary feeling and hopefully the other person feels the same way. True love can develop over time for the both of you if the love between is nurtured.
Love must be cherished and maintained if couples want it to last. Love can die a slow painful death if over time couples start taking each other for granted. Love is a state of mind that must be worked on everyday by each person in the relationship.
Surprise your spouse with something not expected, so don’t wait for the birthday or anniversary. It’s always a special treat to receive an unexpected gift, for most people. This is not about the money, this is about the idea your were thinking about him or her.
Do spur-of-the-moment things, like taking off from work and having a picnic in the park. Use your imagination, and think of things you did together in the past that you loved doing together. It will start new memories that you can share together.
If you want your relationship to survive, keep focused what’s going on in your partner’s world. Couples break up in time because there’s no interest anymore in their partner’s life anymore. If you want to save your relationship, you have to take the time to make time for your partner.
The physical act of touch is wonderful between a couple as it helps keep the relationship together. Touching, whether it’s a simple touch to a massage, is a wonderful part of the relationship. Never neglect touching as a part of your relationship as it is one of the most fundamental aspects of love.
Physical affection is meant to share, so be generous with some hugs and kisses before leaving the house. Why would anyone just give this up? Ask some people who lost their love and they will tell you what it’s like to learn about love the hard way once it is gone.